Remember Who You Were Before…

Think about how picky your partner was about what he could or couldn’t be associated with… his first glimpse of you, his first ideal of you was idealized, but MUCH closer to reality than his complete devaluation of you by the end… This is what is so hard, the extreme swings between hyper idealizing and then complete devaluation. You have to remember who YOU are, what beliefs, values and behaviors you had BEFORE him… that’s YOU.

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